Mad love affairs. Blind dates. Cyber-seductions. No wonder singles seek Anna Johnson’s expert advice. Now it's your turn to help: Read the dilemma below and offer words of wisdom. Then check back March 12 to see Anna's solution.
They say when you're drowning you shouldn't panic, you should relax. I
can't; I'm heartbroken. In November the man I had been living with for the past year dumped me. Having no place left to go I moved back to my mom's house. Now I won't lie and say he was abusive or unfaithful, actually everything was fine. Or at least that's what I thought.
Since then we talk all the time and he claims to "love me so much" but that he needs to get his life in order (he has a lot of stuff going on). Just the other day he called me and told me that he wanted to hear my voice and tell me that he loved me. Of course this makes me think there's the possibility of a reconciliation. That night I called him at home and there were women there. I asked him who was there and he said "some people." When I said goodbye he made a point of saying my name and that he loved me as if he was trying to prove something. I'm so confused. Is there any grown man out there that can explain why a 46-year-old man would behave like this?
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Anna Johnson is the author of Three Black Skirts: All You Need to Survive and has written for Elle, Vanity Fair, Vogue UK and other magazines. She’s a correspondent for the Australian cable TV program By Design. Born in Australia, she currently divides her time between New York City and Sydney.