Parenting
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Parenting is the process of raising and educating a child from birth until they reach adulthood. This task is usually done in a child's family by the mother and father (i.e., the biological parents). Where parents are unable or unwilling to provide this care, the task is usually taken on by close relatives (including older siblings) and grandparents, adoptive parents, foster parents, godparents, or institutions (such as group homes or orphanages). Parens patriae refers to the public policy power of the state to usurp the rights of the natural parent, legal guardian or informal carer, and to act as the parent of any child or individual who is in need of protection.
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Aspects of parenting
- Physical care:
- Reliably providing shelter, education, medical care, physical safety and nourishment.
- Social development and emotional support:
- Financial support:
Parenting Methods and Practices
Parenting may involve praise, but it also involves punishment. Some parents no longer consider spanking a necessary punishment. The term "child training" implies a specific type of parenting that focuses on holistic understanding of the child. The "Taking Children Seriously" philosophy sees both praise and punishment as manipulative and harmful to the child and seeks other way to reach agreement with them. The term "attachment parenting" seeks to create strong emotional bonds and avoid physical punishment, with discipline being accommodated by interactions with a child's emotional needs.
- Discipline:
- Time-out
- Spanking
- Taking Children Seriously (TCS) philosophy
- Parental supervision
Pregnancy and the early years
During pregnancy the unborn child is affected by many decisions his or her parents make, particularly choices linked to their lifestyle. The health and diet decisions of the mother can have either a positive or negative impact on the child.
During infancy
Specific care includes:
- Touching, holding, playing, stimulating and interacting with the child.
- Providing food and drink, and in the case of younger children, the process of feeding or helping with that.
- Providing a toilet and facilities for washing, and in the case of younger children, the washing itself or helping with that, and providing diapers or helping using the toilet (Toilet training).
- providing clothing, and in the case of small children, putting the clothes on and taking them off or helping with that;
- Infant care:
Common areas many parents look to address during infancy
School years
- Education:
- preschool education
- arranging for a school to provide formal education,
- finishing school
- Spiritual enrichment
- Social development
Assistance
Parents may receive assistance from a variety of individuals and organizations. Employers may offer specific benefits or programs for parents.
Observers
Benjamin Spock was an authority on parenting to a generation of North American parents. A current authority is T. Berry Brazelton, the founder of the Child Development Unit at Children's Hospital, Boston, and Professor of Pediatrics Emeritus at Harvard Medical School.
Also see James Dobson
Parenting assessment
There are several parent self-report measures that have been developed for use by clinicians and researchers to assess parenting, such as the Parenting Stress Index (PSI; Abidin, 1995) and Adult-Adolescent Parenting Inventory (AAPI; Bavolek, 1984). Parenting measures can also be observational, such as the Parent-Child Interaction Assessment-II (PCIA-II; Holigrocki, Kaminski, & Frieswyk, 1999).
See:
- Abidin, R. (1995). Parenting Stress Index: Professional Manual. 3rd Ed. Lutz, FL: Psychological Assessment Resources, Inc.
- Bavolek, S. J. (1984). Handbook for the Adult-Adolescent Parenting Inventory. Eau Claire, Wisconsin: Family Development Associates, Inc.
- Holigrocki, R. J, Kaminski, P. L., & Frieswyk, S. H. (1999). Introduction to the Parent-Child Interaction Assessment. Bulletin of the Menninger Clinic, 63(3), 413–428.
See also
- Attachment parenting
- Child abuse
- Elder abuse
- Empty nest syndrome
- Family and consumer science
- Family law
- Finer Report on One Parents Families – see Sir Morris Finer
- Homemaking
- List of child related articles
- Maslow's hierarchy of needs
- Maternal bond and paternal bond
- Parental alienation
- Single parent
External links
- Real World Parenting A parenting community, where friendship and support means the Earth
- Child and Youth Health Wealth of practical health information
- Parenting Information Articles and news about parenting
- Parenting wiki Detailed parenting wiki
- Parenting book reviews powered by Kirkus Reports
- Baby Names Box – a site developed with families and parents in mind
- BBC's parenting website
- BBC h2g2 Guide to Life, the Universe and Everything: Families
- Parenting Style and Its Correlates
- Parenting and Career Development
- The Changing Face of Parenting Education
- If an Adolescent Begins To Fail in School, What Can Parents and Teachers Do?
- Parent Child Interaction Assessment-II (PCIA-II)
- Shared Parenting Works
- Proposed Shared Parenting Laws in the U.S
- It's all your fault!
- Reflections on Being a New Adoptive Parent
- Activism and Parenting: Making Them Work Together
- Parenting All about parenting from a Christian perspective