The mystery of feminine power
SWAMI CHAITANYA KEERTI
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The
power of women lies in tenderness, love, beauty and feminine grace. When they
start seeking the same power as sought by men, they lose something very
precious. Of course, women should be strong and courageous but not in the same
way as men are. They should be strong in their own unique way-the feminine way.
When they realise this uniqueness, no man can match their power.
Once Emperor Akbar asked
Birbal: "Sometimes, I get worried. All the people in my court look henpecked. Is
there not even a single brave man here?" Birbal said: "Looks difficult, but we
will try to find one."
They
were all brave men. If ordered, they would put down their lives without a
moment's hesitation. Their bravery was not in any way suspect. Birbal made
arrangements and said: "Tomorrow, come decided that you will assert the truth.
Anybody who tells a lie is going to the gallows. Think over it. The king wants
to know the truth-are you afraid of your wife or not?"
They all came. The king said:
"Those who are afraid of their wives should move to the right, and those who are
not afraid should stay on the left." All moved to the right except a single,
tiny man. Akbar said: "I am happy because I was thinking that not even a single
man would stay." The lone man said: "Wait! Don't be happy so soon. When I was
coming here, my wife told me not to stand in the crowd! That's why I am standing
here."
What makes a man fear a
woman? Her feminine strength. Man can argue endlessly but, in most cases, the
woman always wins. She may not even produce a good argument, but win she does.
Talking on Lao Tzu and his
feminine principle, Osho explains: "It is natural. The feminine principle wins.
And Lao Tzu is all for the feminine principle. Why does the woman win? She is so
soft. In fact she never fights, she persuades. She does not fight directly; her
fight is indirect and subtle. If she wants to say no, she will not say so
directly, but in a thousand and one ways her whole being will say no. In the way
she places the plate, in the way she moves, in her sari's swish... She will say
no. She herself will say yes but her whole being will say no. How can you defeat
something so subtle? If you love the woman, you are defeated."
Osho brings in the spiritual
dimension: "And it is good that the hard is defeated and the soft wins because
that is the only possibility for God to win in the world. The devil must be hard
like rock. God must be soft. In the East, we never think of God as a father;
rather we think of God as a mother. That insight is beautiful. God should not be
thought of as father because the male principle is hard. God should be thought
of as mother, feminine."
God
persuades you to come to him, yet he never forces you. You never meet him
anywhere and yet you search for him. You never encounter him. He follows you as
a subtle aroma. You never come face to face with him. You will find him deep in
the stirrings of your heart. You will not find him like a storm; he comes like a
subtle breeze. Only those who are very subtle will be able to feel it. He comes
like a flower.
All the
enlightened ones-such as Gautama Buddha-are like flowers and have feminine
grace. That's why people worship them as incarnations of God. They have a
feminine mystery and a tremendous power that no Alexander the Great or Napoleon
could have had. Their influence on humanity is eternal. Humanity surrenders to
them out of reverence, while all the Alexanders who try to conquer the world
fail miserably. Masculine power is violent; feminine power is full of love and
compassion.
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