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PEOPLE have radically diverse responses to the very idea of conspicuous consumption. Some folks consider it blindingly obvious that most economic behaviour is driven by status seeking, social signalling and sexual solicitation. These include most Marxists, marketers, working-class fundamentalists and divorced women. Other folks consider this an outrageously cynical view, and argue that most consumption is for individual pleasure ("utility") and family prosperity ("security"). Those folks include most capitalists, economists, upper-class fundamentalists, and soon-to-be-divorced men.

Such differences of opinion can rarely be resolved by trading examples or anecdotes, or arguing from first principles. It more often helps to apply some psychology. With this in mind, some colleagues and I devised a series of experiments inspired by "costly signalling theory" - the idea that animals, including humans, use costly, intricate and hard-to-fake signals to flaunt their biological fitness to potential mates and social partners. Our goal was to see how thinking about mating influences people's decisions about spending and giving (Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol 93, p 85).

Our goal was to see how thinking about mating affects people's decisions about spending and giving

In the first experiment the team, led by Vladas Griskevicius from Arizona State University in Tempe and Josh Tybur from the University of New Mexico in Albuquerque, invited college students to the lab in small groups. Each was randomly assigned to one of two conditions: "mating" or "non-mating". The mating subjects looked at three photographs of people of the opposite-sex on a computer screen, picked which one they thought most desirable, and spent a few minutes writing about an ideal first date with that person. The non-mating subjects looked at a street scene photograph and spent the same amount of time writing about the ideal weather for walking around and looking at the buildings it featured.

Then, all subjects were asked to imagine that they had a modest windfall of money, such as a lottery win of a few thousand dollars, and must choose how much they wanted to spend on a variety of conspicuous luxuries - such as a new watch, European vacation or new car - and how much they would save in a bank account. They were then asked to imagine that they had some extra time available per week, and were asked to choose how many hours they would spend volunteering - such as working at a homeless shelter or helping at a children's hospital.

The results were dramatic: men in the mating condition said they would spend much more money than men in the non-mating condition - for example, they might take the European vacation rather than saving that money - but there was no mating effect on women's consumption decisions. On the other hand, women in the mating condition said they would spend much more time volunteering than women in the non-mating condition. There was no mating effect on men's volunteering. This study confirmed that conspicuous consumption (for men) and conspicuous charity (for women) can be increased by thinking about mating opportunities, and so can function strategically as a form of mating display.

Because costly signalling theory suggests that signals must be conspicuous and publicly observable in order to attract friends or mates, we wanted to see whether this mating effect applied especially to conspicuous rather than inconspicuous consumption and volunteering. So in a second experiment, another set of college students were randomly assigned to similar mating or non-mating conditions. Then, subjects indicated how much money they would want to spend on the same conspicuous consumption luxuries from study 1, or on some new "inconspicuous" necessities such as basic toiletries and household cleaning products. Finally, subjects indicated how much time they would want to spend on the same conspicuous volunteering from study 1, or on some inconspicuous but socially helpful activities such as picking up trash alone in a park or taking shorter showers to conserve water.

The results here were equally clear: men in the mating condition, compared with the non-mating condition, said they would spend more money on the conspicuous luxuries, and that they would actually spend less on the inconspicuous necessities; there was no effect on female consumption decisions. In contrast, women in the mating condition, compared with those in the non-mating condition, said they would spend more time on conspicuous pro-social volunteering, but no more time on the inconspicuous pro-social activities. Again, there was no effect on male volunteering. So, thinking about mating does not simply increase overall consumer spending or pro-social volunteering; it only increases conspicuous consumption or conspicuous charity - the behaviours that work best as public, costly displays.

It was a bit surprising that in both studies, the mating-primed men did not act more conspicuously benevolent, and the mating-primed women did not spend more on conspicuous consumption. Maybe mating-primed men only favour conspicuously heroic forms of benevolence, such as saving strangers from drowning, and mating-primed women only favour conspicuously generous forms of spending, such as bidding high at charity auctions. So, in study 3, another set of students followed the same routine as in study 2, except that they could choose to spend money on the original forms of conspicuous consumption or on more generous forms such as donating to natural disaster victims at an on-campus booth and bidding high at a public auction to raise money for sick children. Also, they could choose to spend time and energy on the original forms of conspicuous charity or on more heroic activities, such as saving someone from a burning building or distracting a grizzly bear from attacking a stranger.

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Sex And Shopping

Fri Dec 18 03:05:23 GMT 2009 by Nick Wills-Johnson

The interpretation of the results of Study Four seem misplaced. It seems more likely that the girls looking at the photo of the bloke with the Porsche Boxster would realise he is compensating for his lack of sexual prowess by driving a show-off car. Thus, they would not be interested in more than one dud shag with him.

However, realising that all women are wise to this and that he is thus likely rather desperate, and that he clearly has a pile of money to waste on Porsche Boxsters, they also realise that they can probably get at least one item of expensive jewellery out of him in exchange for taking him to bed. This is why they go for the single shag.

The bloke driving the Honda Civic, on the other hand, clearly has no problems with his sexual prowess as he is doing no compensating at all. He is likely, therefore, to be great in bed, and the girls are thus more interested in staying with him, even if he doesn't shower them with jewellery.

Sex And Shopping

Fri Jan 01 22:04:03 GMT 2010 by Karl

According to the study, "men who were most interested in promiscuous, short-term sexual liaisons showed the largest increase".

This just goes to show that men become even more irrational than usual when looking for short-term sexual liaisons. If that was your goal, wouldn't it be more cost effective to hire a prostitute than to buy a Porsche?

At first sight it seems a woman attracted by such behavior is more rational - after all, if a guy is stupid enough to buy a new car to get sex he's probably stupid enough to buy her lots of jewelry too. But then one has to wonder, why would she want jewelry anyway?

I think we can conclude that people are even dumber than we can imagine

Sex And Shopping

Fri Jan 01 23:50:23 GMT 2010 by Liza

"But then one has to wonder, why would she want jewelry anyway?"

All those unconscious preferences are probably shaped by what strategy resulted in viable offspring in the past. Jewelry may not be edible, but if you are left pregnant on your own, you can sell it to feed your kid. In other words, why would a woman be silly enough to engage in a short-term affaire unless the guy is going to compensate her somehow? On the other hand, when looking for a permanent relationship, short-term gift showering in a man is far less important than, say, being dependable and hard-working. In fact, excessive distributing of presents is likely to be nefast for the family budget :-)

People may be dumb, evolutionary logic is not.

Sex And Shopping

Sat Jan 02 12:03:54 GMT 2010 by Jacques

"In other words, why would a woman be silly enough to engage in a short-term affair unless the guy is going to compensate her somehow?" - Liza

LOL...

Sex And Shopping

Sat Jan 02 21:27:13 GMT 2010 by Karl

"Jewelry may not be edible, but if you are left pregnant on your own, you can sell it to feed your kid."

Of course, but this presumes there's a bigger fool willing to buy it... which is probably true. I rest my case.

"People may be dumb, evolutionary logic is not."

I couldn't agree more. Runaway sexual selection (which I suspect is responsible for many of the bizarre traits of humans) is an especially interesting case because it targets an attractor (in the mathematical sense - a local optimum) which is often far from optimal for the species.

But some of the handicaps it leads to can be co-opted for other purposes. A ridiculous head ornament which leads to increased predation might eventually evolve into a wepon useful for defending against predators.

In our case, materialism and fascination with shiny objects is very likely to lead to our extinction. On the other hand, it might get us off the planet In that case it would be the ultimate example of a sexually selected handicap being co-opted for evolutionary success. Evolution can be ironic too.

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Sex And Shopping

Mon Jan 04 16:07:36 GMT 2010 by Mike Gillis

It's far to easy to make whatever assumptions are necessary to support one's own interpretation of such studies. I'm a Honda Civic kind of guy (actually a Toyota Corolla, beige). I don't think it says anything about my sexual self-image or ability. It might suggest that I'm practical, which could be attractive to some women, but certainly not those seeking a quick reward for a one-night stand.

Or maybe I'm cleverly aware that rational women recognize the compensatory behaviour or desperation of the Boxter-driver, and fiendishly choose to drive the Honda in order to disguise my sexual inferiority or desperation and thus attract the women who have seen through the facade.

Or maybe it's simply that the fellow driving the Civic can't afford anything fancier.

Or maybe he's cheap.

Sex And Shopping

Mon Jan 04 20:52:05 GMT 2010 by Mart

on the other hand, the bloke in the Porsche might just like driving them whether he's being watched or not...

Sex And Shopping

Tue Jan 05 11:02:24 GMT 2010 by biggus dickus

Drive a Civic ,do we ?

These Coins Have Two Sides

Sat Dec 19 01:09:33 GMT 2009 by Ian Gilbert

Evolutionary psychology and everyday observation teach that the male's ability to spend is important to women, and the cited studies seem to confirm that principle.

The women's failure to want to spend more in different situations ignores a potentially fruitful line of inquiry: Would the "mating-primed" women expect or demand that the male spend more on the women? Mating-primed women might expect more expensive dating-dinners than would women not so primed.

Washington DC

Does It Work?

Thu Dec 24 09:53:30 GMT 2009 by Eric Kvaalen

What I think is missing from these studies is looking at the question of whether these presumably unconscious tendencies really do affect one's success in passing on one's genes. It could be that we have certain instincts like this, left over from millions of years ago, but which don't really help us today. We shouldn't assume that evolution has made us perfectly optimized. Not everything that can be discovered about our behavior necessarily serves a purpose in passing on our genes.

Does It Work?

Fri Jan 01 15:16:43 GMT 2010 by Pete
http://www.reallyquick.co.uk

The control studies seem to all mention showing the people pictures of buildings. Was there any extra controls to rule out the effect of people looking at pictures of buildings? Whats is there to say that half of these results aren't caused by reminding people of the benefits of prudence and saving, by showing them strings of photos of objects which can usually only be afforded with years of saving or a mortgage. The link between seeing pictures of houses and thinking more prudently seems less contrived than looking at pictures of attractive people making you spend more.

Does It Work?

Fri Jan 01 18:59:00 GMT 2010 by Liza

Good point. Especially the invention of anticonceptives probably caused a disconnection between what constituted optimised reproductive behaviour in the past and at present. Besides, I would also like to know how large the effect really is. Maybe naturally generous people will still act more generously than mating-primed egoists.

Does It Work?

Fri Jan 01 21:29:34 GMT 2010 by Karl

"We shouldn't assume that evolution has made us perfectly optimized" - Eric

We can assume evolution has never made anything perfectly optimized because evolution is always aiming at moving targets. Even if the rest of the environment was perfectly stable each change in a population would move the target. Also, selection can only work on what is already there, which pretty much rules out perfect optimization anyway.

And to all you pedants out there (yes Liza, that includes you LOL) - I use the words "aiming" and "target" in a metaphorical sense.

Does It Work?

Fri Jan 01 23:57:22 GMT 2010 by Liza

Hey! I've never denied I thoroughly enjoy a good dose of pedantry! What would life be without an irrelevant discussion now and then? Why else would I be commenting on NS? ;-)

Does It Work?

Sun Jan 03 15:53:53 GMT 2010 by the prof

ahem

can you two stop flirting now please

she's displayed her desire for informed and intelligent discourse

and he's making it clear he feels hes competent in at least some of these categories

copulation may now begin

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It's not what you give, it's what your gift says about you that counts (Image: George Eastmant House/Hulton/Getty)

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