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RE: Frank Talk on Gay Stereotypes
The same nameless one (I'm assuming in response to me) wrote:
>
> Perhaps you should read closely before you made that idiotic comment
> concerning the clubs. YOu are not saying anything more than I did. What you
> did were rather elaborating on my point . In addition bullshit yourself.
> The whole fucking point were that the clubs is an efficient means for you
> to get to meet others, and being gay freely. Whether you get fucked or get
> to fuck is not my concern.
>
My stupidity was further confirmed when I read this post and again could
not grasp its meaning. Seems to me that I read your posts just fine. On
the one hand, you were harping about sleazy guys in clubs who have no
respect for themselves and their boyfriends when they ogle you or other
guys, and for some unfathomable reason, you assume they're looking for
threesomes. But on the other hand, you seem to want to defend clubs as a
viable meeting place for guys like you who want serious relationships.
All *I* said was that to be shocked, surprised, or repulsed by the types
of guys you meet in clubs is more than a little disingenuous, since that's
what clubs, aka social settings, are for, right? In essence, when you go
to a club, you know fully well what "types" you'll run into, so to
complain about them is rather silly. And I would hardly call clubs the
best or most efficient ways to meet serious guys. And another thing, what
does "whether you get fucked or get to fuck is not my concern" mean? I
never said anything about my intentions with regards to clubbing. Hell, I
don't even frequent clubs, as I've made clear (been to a club once). I'm
all for logical discourse, but if something doesn't make sense to me, or
there seems to be a lack of coherent rationales, well...then my friend,
miscommunication occurs.
-khoa (more vocal in the past couple days than he's been in the past
year...at least on this list)
"Every man is as Heaven made him, and sometimes a great deal worse."
-Cervantes
Khoa Nguyen
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http://www.seattleu.edu/~kwa
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