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Your "insanely jealous" wife’s point of view comes from one of two places:
She is either controlling and unreasonable or has had her confidence eroded
by bad experiences. Let’s assume YOU have never given her cause to be
jealous, so here are your two choices:
- Either be direct and tell her you’re training a new female employee at work, acknowledging that this news won’t be the highlight of her day.
- Don’t mention it and just do your job. I’ll bet you don't report to your wife when you empty the office trash or sharpen the pencils.
Realize that she might get upset, no matter what you do. If you tell, she might obsess and assume that you’re interested in your new trainee. If you don’t tell, you’re vulnerable to accusations that you’re hiding something. You can cover yourself by a casual mention over dinner, something like, "Sheesh, this new employee is a drag — sales is just not her forte." The real issue here, though, is her lack of trust in you. If she is stuck, please help her to get some help before her suspicions ruin what you have.
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I am an overweight woman (300 pounds) and I want to enjoy sex with my
boyfriend. I’m on a weight-loss program, but I don’t want to wait until I’m
thin to have sex. Could you please advise me on some positions and
activities that would be sexually pleasurable for both of us?
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For many people, the traditional missionary position — a staple of North
American bedrooms — isn’t really the most comfortable. It requires the
person on the top to have muscular arms and to be aware of his weight on his
partner who is pinned beneath. Many lighter people like to be the one on the
top. Another lovemaking position is side by side, where neither person is
the lid on the container and weight is distributed evenly. You could try
fooling around in a chair or on a bed sitting up. There are numerous books
illustrating a variety of ways to amuse yourself, so check out your
neighborhood bookstore or library. Your weight-loss plan is sensible —
you’ll feel healthier and proud of yourself as you lighten up. And remember
that sex isn’t just about genitals bumping up against each other; there's
lots of fun in manual and oral business too. Be adventurous and explore some
options. Good luck.
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Of course the subject never came up. I bet he hasn’t asked you about your
mother's mental health either, or whether you’ve ever eaten yak sushi. I’ll
also bet the subject will come up when YOUR herpes makes an unbilled
appearance on HIS precious parts. The subject is YOURS to bring up: A
person has the right to any information that could influence their decision
to commingle their parts and hearts. No one has the right to withhold
information that could risk the health of their partner. Stop boinking till
you tell him. Ask your doctor for information about how to protect
yourselves while having a sex life. Go.
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