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Re: Time heals all things?

Date: Fri, 27 Sep 1996 09:48:28 -0700
Subject: Re: Time heals all things?

Hi Chris,

My heart goes out with you and I always wonder why there are so many
"shitty" people out there, playing this kind of game and can't wait to take
advantage of people.

I don't know much about your story, and as always, there is another side
of the story. But the point here is that six years should mean something
to people. If relationship and feeling happen to change (and too bad
that I see a lot of that around here), I wish there is good memory that 
one should keep, just for giving your best at it.

Hang in there. Time will definitely heal itself.

Charles

ps: what do u mean by "rich and wealthy" thing, was your relationship just
for convenience (for him, I mean)??

> From <email> Thu Sep 26 17:33:17 1996
> Date: Thu, 26 Sep 1996 17:41:28 -0700
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> From: Anonymous Poster <email>
> Subject: Time heals all things?
> To: <email>
> 
> On Sunday, September 22, 1996 6:09 PM, Anonymous =
> <email> wrote:
> >
> >Other than time, is there any other tried and true prescription
> >to help one through the inevitable end of something which wasn't
> >meant to be ... now that it's over ....
> >
> >Too tired to be sad ... :-(
> >
> 
> Thank you for this open and honest piece of mail.  I too am suffering =
> from a terrible loss.  From the dirty and tragic end to a relationship =
> that was not meant to be and which I should never have pursued.  I said =
> goodbye in Singapore in April 1991 to someone who at the time still =
> loved me and cared about me, and rather than accept what fate was trying =
> to tell me I wasted most of the time since on someone who ended up =
> diminishing me, taking advantage of my generosity and starvation for =
> affection, and ultimately tossing me away when he was through with me, =
> another bead on a string of broken hearts.  And who gleefully told me he =
> "despised" me, and laughed aloud at my agony, and generously offered to =
> care for my cats should I find life to be so intolerable that the =
> responsibility for their care should impede me from ending my own life.
> 
> Now he is in California looking for another, wealthier, =
> affection-starved gay man to take advantage of.  To this person I =
> devoted six years of my life.  Vengeance is but a phone call away, but I =
> won't lower myself to phoning him in to the INS.
> 
> I hope time does indeed heal, like they say.  The pain is savage.
> 
> Shattered in Washington....Chris
> 
> 
> 
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