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Time heals all things?
On Sunday, September 22, 1996 6:09 PM, Anonymous =
<email> wrote:
>
>Other than time, is there any other tried and true prescription
>to help one through the inevitable end of something which wasn't
>meant to be ... now that it's over ....
>
>Too tired to be sad ... :-(
>
Thank you for this open and honest piece of mail. I too am suffering =
from a terrible loss. From the dirty and tragic end to a relationship =
that was not meant to be and which I should never have pursued. I said =
goodbye in Singapore in April 1991 to someone who at the time still =
loved me and cared about me, and rather than accept what fate was trying =
to tell me I wasted most of the time since on someone who ended up =
diminishing me, taking advantage of my generosity and starvation for =
affection, and ultimately tossing me away when he was through with me, =
another bead on a string of broken hearts. And who gleefully told me he =
"despised" me, and laughed aloud at my agony, and generously offered to =
care for my cats should I find life to be so intolerable that the =
responsibility for their care should impede me from ending my own life.
Now he is in California looking for another, wealthier, =
affection-starved gay man to take advantage of. To this person I =
devoted six years of my life. Vengeance is but a phone call away, but I =
won't lower myself to phoning him in to the INS.
I hope time does indeed heal, like they say. The pain is savage.
Shattered in Washington....Chris
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